Avocado Kiss

I LOVE tv!

2009-06-01T13:39:00.005-04:00

I'm sure if you like reality TV, then you already know that TLC has a new show all about weddings. Wedded to Perfection centers on Fete Events owner, Jung Lee and her husband Josh Brooks. Jung designs over the top weddings, but her dedication to detail can give even the most budget conscious bride lots of ideas. Plus, it's fun to live in a fantasy for an hour...and isn't that what reality TV is all about? You might remember Jung Lee from another wedding reality show, Who's Wedding Is It Anyway.

Tune in...you'll love it!

Some new wheels!

2009-05-22T10:08:00.005-04:00

How AWESOME is this bicycle?! I'm totally into these type of bikes lately. On my Savannah vay-cay, I had the chance to ride my mom's way cool bike, but I think I might like this one much better. I could probably stick my nephews in the back and take them for a ride. They would think it was fab (though, that might be some type of "safety violation", as little G would say...). Check out this link to have a chance to win a free Madsen bike for yourself.

DIY Fabulous!

2009-05-12T09:46:00.002-04:00

Can you believe that this is a DIY project?! The cider was hand pressed and the labels were made by the couple. And all of this for about $2.00 a bottle. What a fabulous favour for a wedding. Check out the post at 100 Layer Cake.

I'm a sucker...

2009-05-08T13:16:00.004-04:00

Regardless of how much my dog would enjoy this food...I would totally buy this. The packaging is awesome. As we all know, I'm a total sucker for packaging. You could literally sell me garbage, just as long as the package looked nice!

p.s. I love the colour combos...sometimes you need to look in an unexpected place to find inspiration for your wedding!

:: from Dieline

Beautiful DIY

2009-05-08T13:03:00.004-04:00

Check out the instructions for this WAY cute cakestand here.

:: image from Once Wed

AMAZING!

2009-05-07T09:55:00.002-04:00

Please check out Kelly & Chris's wedding over at Style Me Pretty. I'm literally drooling....

link here, here, and here

uh...hold the phone!!

2009-05-06T12:45:00.007-04:00

I think everyone in university probably had a papasan chair. They are probably the most comfortable chairs ever, but they have never been particularly attractive. Well, look what I found at Pier 1...an outdoor papasan chair! With cool cushions!! They have all kinds of colourful patterns, like stripes and florals, and the chair looks like wicker, but is actually plastic. To top it off, it's on sale...LOVE it! I am totally going to pick one up. Combined with one of their very nice outdoor carpets, I will have the perfect reading spot outside. And, BTW, Pier 1 has come a long way...no longer are they wicker furniture and Indian print fabrics...they had a lot of nice tableware, pictures and cushions. Definitely worth a stop!

Spring Flowers Wall Art

Motion Wall Art

Rethink the bouquet?

2009-05-06T10:15:00.008-04:00

I just picked up the latest issue of Canadian Gardening yesterday. The hanging basket on the cover really caught my eye. I love the colours. I LOVE the fact that you don't have to water it very much even more! That's perfect for me, because though I'm very enthusiastic about gardening at the beginning of the season, a few weeks in I get kind of bored.

Wouldn't these colours be perfect for a wedding...and florals combined with succulents would be very elegant! So, I did a search on some pictures for inspiration, and here we go....

boutonniere from InStyle Weddings

succulents wedding favor from Martha Stewart

pretty purple centerpiece from Martha

I'm thinking a burlap table cloth, and maybe antique silver or antique gold accents. Here is a colour palette for some inspiration:

Cinco De Mayo

2009-05-05T12:58:00.009-04:00

It's May 5th, and that means it's my sister-in-law's birthday, but it also means it's Cinco De Mayo! And seriously...is there anything better than a cold margarita and some guacamole?? I never used to think that I liked margaritas (you know, sometimes that tequila brings back bad memories), but then, on a trip to Arizona, I had the most amazing margarita at the Four Seasons Resort in Scottsdale. Now, we're not talking the frozen blender kind..we're talking on the rocks, and it was DEE-LISH! And wouldn't you know it...the Four Seasons also had the most amazing guacamole that they served with blue corn chips. Needless to say, for that one week, everyday at about 4pm, we noshed on guac and margaritas and it was the best time ever. Not that any of this has to do with Cinco De Mayo..but the day just got me thinking of the perfect cocktail hour!

Garnish me happy!

2009-04-30T09:17:00.002-04:00

Throwing out some link love today.....

Garnish has wooden berry boxes in stock, and I'm thinking of the millions of ways I can use them! At 50 cents each, they are a steal. Check out this blog post for a really cute idea!

Shop Scad!

2009-04-28T15:32:00.008-04:00

As I mentioned before, I just got back from a Savannah vay-cay. Besides going to the beach, I managed to get a lot of shopping in! Savannah has some great shops, with unique finds. One of my faves is the SCAD shop. This store is run by the Savannah College of Art and Design. It stocks the talented works of current SCAD students and alumni...and you can always find something amazing! This week, they launched a new and improve website...and you don't have to travel all the way to Savannah to pick something up.

I bought one of these puffy frames (dog not included!)...not sure what to do with it, but I know I'll find a place. It's from Working Class Studios.

I fell in love with this painting by Tiffani Taylor. My parents have a few of her paintings in their house, and they are SO gorgeous!

And I thought this was kind of cool too...though I'm not sure where I would put it. Jessica Knapp is the artist.

My perennial favorite store is Paris Market. I always find something there...often too much. And a new favorite is the Gray Horse in Sandfly...which is close to Skidaway Island and the Isle of Hope.

So be sure to take a look at Shop SCAD's new website...I know you will find some treasures of your own!

totally off topic....

2009-04-26T14:34:00.001-04:00

Have you seen this commercial yet? I was dying...it's HIGHlarious!! This is the extended version, and has the words karaoke style. LOVE IT!

Spring Sales!

2009-04-26T14:18:00.005-04:00

I'm embarrassed to even look at how long it has been since the last post! We have been busy with Avocado Kiss stationery projects, travel and life in general! M just got back from Las Vegas, and I just got back from a family vay-cay in beautiful Savannah. Oh how I miss the green grass. We are still stuck in a very dreary spring...I can't wait until I can see the lawn come to life, leaves on the trees and break out the convertible for the season!

Even though it's a bleak spring day here, there is still good things to be had. You see, every once and while, I check out Home Depot's website. You know, they sell WAAAAY more stuff online than they do in the store (in Canada, anyway). I got some nice topiary trees (fake...'cuz otherwise I'd kill them!), all my patio furniture, my dining room rug and all of the outdoor lighting. Well wouldn't you know it, when I checked today, they were having a sale. Check out these great pieces from Skyline Furniture.

slipper chair in "Esprit", on sale $263

upholstered ottoman, on sale for $287.20

The chairs and ottomans come in so many different patterns, I'm sure you'll find one to fit your style. They also had some great upholstered headboards, fun things for the kid's room and some really cute stools for the bathroom. The sale is on until May 6th....I'm beginning to feel that Spring fever already!!

moss

2009-04-13T15:26:00.004-04:00

Ballerina Yarn Necklace with a silver chain and removable brooch

$18.00

SnipSnap on Etsy

Hydrangea Pomander

$45.00

Emily Wootton on Etsy

Moss Covered Monogram

(attached to a wooden letter design)

$30.00

SimpleSweetDesign on Etsy

Vintage Key Necklace

$49.00

BionicUnicorn on Etsy

I was doing a little reading on landscaping recently because I am thinking retroing (is that a word?) our yard. To be honest I am a perennial person simply because they require very minimal amount of work and if I can incorporate that ease into a beautiful looking yard and deck - all the better. One thing I found really interesting is that moss is a very eco-friendly alternative to planting grass because it holds more moisture opposed to blades that have a waxy finish. It is also easy to keep weed free and really requires barely any mowing...PERFECT!!!

It led me to do some research on Etsy (of course) and thought that glass dishes of moss for decoration or incorporating that element/colour into your wedding day would be so pretty. I found these pieces online...

Head of the Class!

2009-04-06T10:34:00.007-04:00

I know, if you read blogs, you've already seen Ban.Do. Still, they are so pretty, I felt compelled to post a few of my faves here. And don't just think of them for the Bride...I'm seriously considering buying one to wear to a wedding I have in August. I just need to figure out the hair thing, but I digress. Here are a few lovelies!

:: images via Ban.Do

dress inspiration

2009-04-06T10:26:00.005-04:00

I feeel like looking at fashion today.....here are some dresses that tickled my fancy today!

Valentino Sposa

Pattis

Carolina Herrera

Augusta Jones

::photos via The Knot

ciao bella

2009-03-31T21:09:00.002-04:00

I was checking out this really great line of skincare and haircare products by Davines, an Italian company, that I first noticed in Real Simple's April issue. I have to say that the first thing that inspired me to look into this company online was because of how it looks and we all know that C and I are big into packaging and labels. This company provides about 10 different high end lines to indulge yourself with while maintaining their philosophy around being eco-friendly and sustainable. They also are responsible for the Comfort Zone spa who have a really cool layout on their website. It's definitely worth checking out. These are some pictures of their products...

spring ahead!

2009-03-26T10:08:00.006-04:00

I know it's supposed to be Spring, but it's actually snowing where I live today! I'm so eager to see green grass and some tulips. And, of course, Spring got me thinking about shoes, which lead to this post.

This bridal ensemble was inspired by these Christian Louboutin shoes. Coincidentally, they come in both heels and flats. So, whether you are having a a more formal wedding, or something at the beach, either pair would work. The dress is a simple design from J.Crew...so a fabulous necklace would compliment it perfectly. (Incidentally, I just came back from a Caribbean vacation and at the resort I was staying at, there were many weddings...if you can do it, totally the way to go!)

These amazing orange Jimmy Choos were the jumping off point for this rehearsal or shower outfit. The dress is metallic linen from J.Crew and the bracelet is something I found at Nordstrom.

Now, I know the shoes are crazy expensive, but if they are out of your price range, there are so many less expensive options out there. Think of these outfits as inspiration for your big day!

:: Louboutins via Neiman Marcus
:: Jimmy Choos and bracelet via Nordstrom
:: dresses via J.Crew

keep your head in the game!

2009-03-23T14:53:00.004-04:00

I just came across Sara Gabriel's headpieces in the new InStyle Weddings issues. I love the photography, and her designs! She has everything from elaborate veils to the most simple hair pins. If you are still looking to complete your bridal ensemble, pay a visit to Sara's website for some inspiration.

Pretty

2009-03-20T08:56:00.005-04:00

I was browsing through the J. Crew website and saw these two teal dresses. I thought that they would be really pretty for a bridesmaid. Typically going with the non-traditional, I find these completely perfect for this summer or for a tropical wedding.

Feel Good Friday

2009-03-13T16:57:00.001-04:00

I just saw this video on Oprah, and felt compelled to post it here. Of course, it makes me cry everytime I watch it. As a new pet owner myself, it reminds me of the unconditional love an animal can bring into your life. It really warms my heart...a perfect way to end the week!

F.Y.I.

2009-03-10T17:07:00.001-04:00

Hostess With The Mostess is featuring a giveaway from one of our favorite places...Garnish. Check it out, leave a comment, and you can be a winner!

guilt over perogies

2009-03-06T14:36:00.004-05:00

Ok...so, I have to admit I have not been pulling my weight as of late sharing in the posts on our blog. All of the fab posts being put up in recent months have been by C and are super as always. She is a style guru, suberb crafter and everyone's "go to girl" for design ideas to inspiration. Besides all that she is my best friend!

I was browsing the Real Simple website and they have a "flower finder"...though it is pretty basic it gives you a head start to finding the types of flowers you could be looking for, depending on the season. Myself, I'm not one to sticking with "colours according to season". I think a little ingenuity and creativity aren't based on the time of year, and you can pretty much incorporate any colour or look into any celebration.

Style, Without Leaving Home!

2009-03-03T16:02:00.001-05:00

I have to admit, that I bought two rings off of The Shopping Channel last week. I wasn't actually watching the station, I found them online. The Shopping Channel is the Canadian version of QVC or HSN. Have you checked this places out lately? They have a lot of really cool stuff! QVC carries designer brands for goodness sake! So I thought, this could work for the bride...totally! What a great place to pick up some accessories to go with your perfect dress.

QVC has designers like Tacori and Judith Ripka. Both high end jewelry designers, that are now making costume pieces affordable to us all. The Shopping Channel has the Victoria & Albert Collection, pieces inspired by the real thing on display at the V&A Museum in London.

Wouldn't the goldfish pin be perfect on a bouquet or to add some originality to a sash on your dress? How about the drop earrings from Tacori for your something blue.

Sometimes you find the perfect piece in a place you never even thought of before. So do some web shopping, or turn on the TV....just resist the urge to buy another George Foreman grill!

busy, busy!

2009-02-27T09:26:00.002-05:00

Sorry for the lack of posts lately. Husband and I have a new addition, and he's keeping us pretty busy.

I promise, when I'm not following him around, making sure he won't go in the house, I'll have some more time to post!

The dress for less...

2009-02-17T09:03:00.002-05:00

I'm about to head out to the Natick Mall, one of my favorite places to shop. Really, it's because I love the shoe department at Nordstrom's! Which got me to thinking....what kind of dresses do they have? See, M got her wedding dress at Nordstrom's, on sale, on sale, and it only came out to about $150! Now that's a deal.

So, this is what I found today...the most expensive is $570, but all the others are under $500. It's time to think outside of the traditional bridal store when shopping for a dress!

BCBG Max Azria - $360

BCBG Max Azria - $570

ABS by Allen Schwartz - $438

:: images via Nordstrom

Be mine....

2009-02-14T07:46:00.003-05:00

Happy Valentine's Day...go hug the ones you love!

::via flickr

relections...

2009-02-13T15:34:00.000-05:00

::via ffffound

Oscar de la WOW!

2009-02-03T13:55:00.008-05:00

I think I have pledged my love for Oscar De La Renta before. I just admire his classic designs that seem to take on a modern shape every season. If I could afford it, and I would wear Oscar day and night! So, naturally, I did a quick check on what's coming up for Spring 2009 in his bridal fashion. I pretty much adored everything!

image from here

This particular dress made me think of that pink dress Marilyn Monroe wore in Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. You know, the one she is wearing when she sings Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend. Can you believe I had a heck of a time trying to find a picture of that dress! Seriously, it's super famous, you think it would be all over the internet.

The next dress instantly made me think of an island wedding...maybe on Capri, or somewhere on the French Riviera. When Bianca Jagger married Mick Jagger, she kind of wore a similar look...Oscar's is updated for 2009. I love it!

These next two I posted because I think they are to gorgeous to ignore. One is soft and pretty, and the other is more structured and sexy. See, Oscar De La Renta has a little something for everyone!

Which are your favorites?

:: Oscar De La Renta dresses courtesy of The Knot

Speaking of shoes...

2009-01-30T11:27:00.006-05:00

Those who know me...perhaps know my love of camoflauge. I have been known to have a few pairs of camo shorts and camo pants. I'm trying to hold myself back, and have vowed not purchase anymore.

Then, I saw these. Now, before you think I'm completely mental, I would never purchase these! What boggles my mind is that there are acutally people out there who might purchase an $800 pair of satin camoflauge Manolo Blahniks. Who are you, and what are you going to wear them with? I'm really curious. Though, I know my two nephews would probably think it was pretty cool that I had a pair of camo heels, I'm not sure who else would.

:: Manolo Blahniks from Neiman Marcus

Yoo Hoo!

2009-01-30T11:09:00.010-05:00

The new fashion season is upon us. Yay! That means lots of new wedding dresses and bridesmaids fashions to browse. I have noticed that the "trend" for wedding dresses is short hemlines. I love that idea, and think that if I were to do it again, that might just be something I choose, with a smart birdcage veil and an amazing pair of shoes!

But, today's post is all about the maids. I was checking out the 2009 look book from Jenny Yoo, and fell in love. All of these dresses would be perfect for a bridesmaid, a guest, or even the bride herself, depending on the style of wedding you are going for.

My favorites are the red and the yellow dresses...what are yours?

::all images from Jenny Yoo

my bad...

2009-01-25T12:46:00.003-05:00

What's that you say? It's been a month since our last post, and you thought we had dropped off the face of the earth? Have no fear...we are still here. See, between the holidays, going back to work, M's constant eye infections and some exciting new work, we've been busy.

So, now it's a new year. A time to get organized and start fresh! Avocado Kiss is working on a very exciting wedding this August, and we are even stepping into the "wedding coordinator" role, well, for the big day anyway. We get so much inspiration from all around us, from the Internet, magazines, and my constant favorite....the J. Crew catalogue! The current issue has peaked my interest...not only do I want all of the clothes (and the body to match), I'm loving the colour palette. So, to give you all some inspiration, here is my newly created bulletin board, inspired by J. Crew.

an occasion to dress for...

2008-12-23T08:37:00.003-05:00

Rose Gold Regal Inspired Wrap - $84.00

Ethereal Wrap de Fleur - $89.00

Velvet Bolero (custom design) - $160.00

New Year's Eve is coming and though for me I've never been a big New Year's Eve person with all the hoopla of planning months ahead, finding the perfect outift, making reservations or scrounging for tickets I may change my mind for 2008. I LOVE LOVE LOVE this shop on etsy and it has inspired me to find something great to wear for the special occasion. This year we will be celebrating with our close friends and my daughter so the need for a fab outfit isn't necessary, however I may just fiind something incredible to do just for an excuse to wear a piece from this line.

The shop is called "bonzie" and i am going to copy and paste her description because I couldn't say it any better...

"BONZIE is an Independent Irish Fashion Label with romantic vintage Appeal. Often using upcycled clothing, thrifted trinkets and vintage inspired fabric in an artful blend of tattered chic neovictorian,steampunk and deconstructed elements! "

"that's a wrap"

2008-12-11T23:09:00.004-05:00

I had a few girlfriends over tonight that I really only get to see socially 2 or 3 times a year (which may be a good thing since all we do is eat and gossip). I hosted a little "wrapping party" where we got to wrap our Christmas gifts away from sneaky eyes. Each person brought one roll of wrapping paper and a pair of scissors and I provided ribbon, tape, tags (made by Avocado Kiss of course), light snacks and tea.

It was a really great night to get caught up and made for an excuse to get together. I also sent each guest home with a package of gourmet hot chocolate tied with wide satin ribbon, embellished with an ornament and all put together with a clear Garnish box and kraft label. It was something thoughtful but very simple and inexpensive.

good friends...good food!

2008-12-10T17:51:00.010-05:00

Like I had mentioned before, I had my annual cookie swap the other day. Here are some pics of the little something special I sent people home with.

Some mulling sachets. So easy, I tied them up in cheesecloth and red and white twine. Put them into a plastic container with a handy label for instructions (thank you Martha!). Next, some personalized recipe cards in a screen printed muslin bag. I got every one's recipes ahead of time and included them in with the personalized cards. I also picked up some very cute mugs from the Dollarama. Hello...these were $1!! The deli containers, twine and labels are from Garnish.

sorry for the sideways picture!

We also had our monthly supper club event last weekend. It was an Asian theme, and so much fun! I'm telling you people, if you want a good time, take a couple of 30 somethings, combine with a game of Twister and Pictionary, and you've got an AWESOME night on your hands! And, if you have boys against girls, it's even more fun! Here a few pictures. The takeout containers are from Garnish, they were for M's dish of spicy beef and rice. I made mango banana spring rolls with chocolate sauce. I also served it up with a little scoop of raspberry gelato. Again, purchased my glass plates at the Dollarama. I swear, I love that place...it's amazing what you can get for $1!

a mean game of Twister...good times!

finally, something different!

2008-12-08T15:36:00.004-05:00

Please check out this wedding. I love the vibe, love the bridesmaids, love the photographer (Matthew Morgan). It has a casual fun feel, but the bride still looks elegant...I wish I was a guest, it looks like it would of been a lot of fun!

:: image courtesy of Matthew Morgan Photography

feeling crafty!

2008-12-06T14:31:00.007-05:00

I know, I know...I'll say it again...we should be updating this blog more, but it's just been so crazy around here! Don't worry, we have lots on the go in the next few weeks, so we should have party pictures to post and we will be sure to sneak in a few wedding things here and there.

A friend just recently had a baby, and I always try to use my craftiness to create something. So, with a little help from M2, I made this...

M2 made the flash cards, and I stitched up a little felt case with the little man's initial on the front. I also made a mini patchwork blanket with minky fabric on the back. These mini blankets are the perfect size for strolling around town, to keep in the car or for just hanging out at home. The patchwork was so easy because all the pieces were pre cut (from one of my favorite online fabric stores, Sew Mama Sew). I just fancied it up with a little topstitching, and voila!

M and I have our 3rd supper club dinner tonight, so we'll be sure to post some pictures of our Asian feast! Have a great weekend everyone.

'tis the season...

2008-11-22T13:54:00.004-05:00

It's that time of year when the rush of holiday parties are upon us. Last year I hosted a cookie exchange with my girlfriends, and it was such hit, I decided to do it again this year. So, I enlisted the help of my very talented sister, M2....she's amazing! This is what she came up with. I just printed it on plain card stock, but have a few ideas up my sleeve for the actual party, so I'll be sure to post pics then.

Husband and I have hosted an annual brunch for the last few years as well. Last year we decided to move it to holiday time, in lieu of the traditional cocktail party. It turns into an all day event, a fun time to visit with all the children that are usually sleeping when we get together, and of course, we still have our mimosas! These CD invitations were inspired by all those cheesy 60's and 70's albums my parents used to have in their collections. You know, the kind you used to play on those big cabinet stereos that opened on top. I thought of sending out a cool remix of popular holiday hits, and incorporating it into an invitations. Again, M2 came up this amazing design.

I'm looking forward to a busy December! Please check out M2's website at A Girl Named Fred.

dreaming of a tan.....a beach....and a cocktail!

2008-11-17T10:59:00.005-05:00

I know that it's only the middle of November, but I'm not liking winter already! It's started to turn cold here in our part of the world, and I'm not having it. First of all, it's so dry I feel like my face is going to crack every time I make an expression. Secondly, I have to wear socks...I don't like wearing socks. Thirdly, I need to wear gloves a scarf and a winter coat...too many things! The list could go on forever. If, on January 1st, we had no more snow (we don't have snow yet...but I'm sure it's only a few weeks away!), I would be so content. I like having snow for Christmas, it makes the holiday, but when I have to deal with it for another 4 months...it's not good! Needless to say, I'm dreaming of places like this....

Through another blog, Simply Seleta, (a fun blog to read, Seleta is always doing such fun things, and her beautiful family is straight out of a J.Crew catalogue!) I have learned of this little beach town called Rosemary Beach. I totally want to move here...like...now! The houses are beyond fabulous, you can walk everywhere, there is tons of green space, and most importantly, a white sand beach! Not too far away is Alys Beach, a similar community. Both of these places are in Florida, a place we often visit. Unfortunately, we go in February, and we are looking for heat, so I think these towns might be a bit far north for that time of year. Nonetheless, it looks like a perfect place to take a fall vacation, the temperature would be perfect!

totally into peacock feathers and such

2008-11-14T11:32:00.002-05:00

Yes folks, that's right...I have now decided I am totally in love with peacock feathers!!! C and I went to Urban Outfitter's in Las Vegas and they had some really super cool hair pins with feathers. They were so pretty. I thought what better place to find them then on etsy and I have discovered Jaime Wayne who also does fab photgraphy. The pieces range from $15.00 to $20.00 which considering how beautiful they are is awesome.

Viva Las Vegas

2008-11-12T10:38:00.005-05:00

M and I had a pretty awesome trip! All I can say is...Madonna was beyond! The show was amazing, Madge is crazy fit, and we definitely got our groove on! You have to see the show to experience all it's goodness. I still can't believe I saw MADONNA! There were some famous people there, but we didn't have binoculars, so we couldn't see them...but we did see all the fans snapping pictures!

I also highly recommend spending 6 hours at the Qua Spa at Caeser's Palace. We each had two treatments and spent the rest of the time in the mineral baths, arctic ice room and sipping some tea. It was a complete indulgence, and it was soooo worth it! We lived like queens for a day. Do you know they have a sauna for your robe, just to keep it warm while your enjoying the pools. In the arctic ice room it snows...yes people, it snows, real flakes!

the arctic ice room

the mineral baths, with heated stone loungers

And, of course, we did some shopping. Did you know that you can buy a winter coat in the middle of the desert? It was too weird seeing all the winter clothes when it was 75 degrees outside! We also tested lady luck at the roulette table, and won! That was so much fun!

All in all, a fabulous whirlwind trip to Sin City. Thank you M for sharing the experience with me!! So...where to next?

sugary goodness!

2008-11-12T10:16:00.008-05:00

What happens when you mix a modern furniture marketing director and passionate baker? You get, Sugarcoat It Studio...an amazing cakes! Krista Markell draws inspiration for her cakes from everywhere, furniture, textiles, fashion and her clients.

I love the simple designs, bright colours and different textures that her cakes have. It is so refreshing to finally see something different in cake design, and a unique approach to wedding design. Please check out their portfolio, you'll be delighted!

about to explode!!

2008-11-05T13:25:00.006-05:00

One exciting weekend!! M and I are off to Vegas to see Madonna and I'm so freakin' excited, I'm going to explode!! We'll be sure to update you on our spa-cirque de soleil-madonna weekend when we return!

Environmentally chic!

2008-11-03T10:40:00.004-05:00

Who knew, you can save the planet and look great doing it! We all know that weddings tend to be over the top affairs, that more often than not, increase our carbon footprint. Well, now you can feel a bit better about your environmental future by purchasing a dress from the White Chocolate Label by Scott Corridan. I love the their tag line "couture never looked so green." How amazing is this dress!!

The White Chocolate Label is committed to using sustainable and organic materials whenever possible. They partner with manufacturers who employ free trade principals, and look to reduce waste in their packaging and shipping methods. And only they can say it best:

... And lastly, always strive to be a leader and innovator, offering easy access and open lines of communication with our clients, to insure that our deserts blow clean winds, that our sycamores drink clean water, that our oceans pound at our shores with non-toxic affect, and that the snow that falls from a Sierra’s winter sky is as pure as the heavens they fall from.

:: thank you Ritzy Bee!

managing out of town guests...

2008-11-01T12:47:00.002-04:00

I recently just had some house guests from British Columbia at my house and I spent a crazy amount of time trying to get my house prepped and making everything "just so." Anyhow, I was again on the Real Simple website and found that they had a whole section on making your house guests feel at home. They have suggestions on creating extra closet space, picking up mini toiletries and finding more room to sleep. It was really great and I will definetly use some of their suggestions next time around!!!

umm...awesome!

2008-10-31T10:34:00.002-04:00

Yes, I know...I have pledged my love for Gossip Girl in this space before. But did you know that New York Magazine has a blog dedicated to the "The Greatest Show Of Our Time". It's like having Gossip Girl on twice a week!! It is written by Jessica Pressler and Chris Rovzar, and it is witty and hilarious! You must read it if you are a Gossip Girl fan, check it out here.

Gossip Girl fan
xoxo

Freebie Friday

2008-10-31T10:23:00.004-04:00

I could do a Halloween post, but I'm being a bit scroogey about it this year. So instead, I have a free download for you. A Girl Named Fred has some free wallpaper for your desktop (quite appropriate, since I'm totally in love with wallpaper right now!). And what makes it even better, is that it has a November calendar on it, perfect to count down the days till the holiday season!

click here to find the size that best suits your screen!

Thankful...

2008-10-29T13:03:00.004-04:00

Too often it is other peoples tragedies that knock some sense into us, and make us realize that our lives are pretty good. That happened today....and it makes me think that I'm so fortunate to have a loving, amazing family and the best friends you could ever imagine.

:: image via Deborah Mori

p.s. also loving the quote on the banner of her Etsy shop, "Today is a NEW day. Don't put off your happy life!"

laundry day!

2008-10-27T10:49:00.004-04:00

wire laundry basket from here

I am TOTALLY obsessed with this laundry cart! I know...being in love with a laundry basket is a little odd, but I just can't stop thinking about it. I first saw this cart used in the Hamptons Cottage & Gardens Idea House. This laundry room is gorgeous! It is designed by Adrienne Neff, and after checking out her website, I would just love her to do over my entire house. In the meantime, I'm thinking about how I can rework my own laundry space to accommodate this cart. I having been thinking for a while that it's time for me to redo my laundry room (well, just paint and some decor, the cabinetry is working for me), and this just gives me more incentive! I'll keep you posted.

photograph from HC&G Idea House

need it...want it...

2008-10-24T09:02:00.004-04:00

GOTTA HAVE IT!

We've posted about them before, but they have so many new designs since the last time I looked! Check out Red Ruby Rose's Etsy shop...you'll find soooo many "gotta have its"!

Ode to Blair

2008-10-21T16:29:00.007-04:00

:: image from here

Gossip Girl is my favorite show...I can't explain it, it just is. I especially love the fashions, and if there is one thing that Blair Waldorf is always wearing, it's a headband. So my Etsy find today, is an ode to Blair...

Check out VieModerne for unique headpieces. From the fanciest of feathers to simple ribbons, I'm sure you'll be able to find some Blair inspired head wear at this Etsy shop!

entertaining the EASY way

2008-10-20T10:04:00.003-04:00

I bought the new issue of Style at Home and there are many things that I dog eared to post about. It really was a super fabulous one. As you've seen previously on our blog, C and I are part of a dinner club and it is mine and the hubby's turn next. Though it is not until early December I have been perusing the internet and various magazines for ideas on our theme of "Asian Persuasion" (and no, it's not a porn as C has tried to make very clear to our other members). We are going to incorporate some games into the night too so I am trying to come up with some "things" that fit.

One of the great ideas I saw in the mag is using scrabble letters for placecards...genious. Another is to cover your table with kraft paper and to write in black marker their names to indicate seating but I am going to change it a little and make tic tac toe squares and hangman games in between the place settings (I couldn't find this pic online but it's in the mag). These were just 2 of my faves and there are alot more so pick up the mag or check out their wesbsite. Any other thoughts, let me know!!!

Sunday Afternoon...

2008-10-19T12:18:00.002-04:00

Perhaps I'm behind in the news of the music world, but I have never heard of Adele. I first heard her on SNL (on which, BTW, I thought Sarah Palin was fab!) last night, and I think I have found a new fave! Let me tell you, it's been a very looooong time since I have downloaded an ENTIRE album from iTunes, but I had to have this one. Adele's voice is hauntingly beautiful, and I know that you will love it too.

ummm...hello?!

2008-10-15T10:59:00.007-04:00

#1. Have you seen these?

#2. This is the coolest site ever!

#3. Must find a way I can use all of these products!

#4. Moo

Check out Moo for mini cards, business cards, greeting cards, postcards, sticker books and note cards. This is definitely the COOLEST thing I have seen in a long time. They also have a blog where they show how customers use their products.

alter ego

2008-10-15T10:51:00.001-04:00

So, if I lived in Milan, I would totally look like this....

:: via The Sartorialist

some pretty

2008-10-15T10:42:00.006-04:00

I was watching Say Yes To The Dress on TLC on the weekend, and thought it was totally awesome that the bridal consultants try on the dresses. That is sooooo what M and I would do if we owned a bridal shop! So, to honour those ladies, here is a little eye candy for your Wednesday morning.

From Monique Lhuillier Spring 2009

a classic Monique Lhuillier silhouette

something a little bit different, I don't think everyone could wear this one

From Monique Lhuillier Fall 2008

love the detailing on this one

this one is just so pretty

fall faves!

2008-10-08T10:11:00.005-04:00

So I know...these are few and far between! But I just recently purchased some new treats for myself on my mini vay-cay. Let me start off by saying I am a huge fan of nail polish. I'm a little afraid of applying colour to my face, but I have no issues with my nails! My quest has been to find the perfect pink, and the perfect dark colour. I had been partial in the past to Essie Mademoiselle, but I have found a new love....Chanel Ballerina. Yes, this is more expensive, but it is sooo worth it! It goes on like a dream, an nice wide brush, dries quickly, and you achieve the perfect pink nail in two coats! It would be the perfect shade for your wedding day. I also picked up the classic Chanel Rouge Noir...a dark blood red, perfect for fall!

My other new fave is the Neutrogena Mineral Sheers Liquid makeup. Hello, it comes with a built in brush, you can't get better than that! It's so easy to put on, and has enough coverage, but still feels light. You have to do a little blending with your fingertips, but still love it just the same. Unfortunately, I don't know of anywhere in Canada that you can buy Neutrogena cosmetics, so you will just have to wait for a trip across the border.

i love it

2008-09-30T22:38:00.004-04:00

C is on vay cay with the husband in Nova Scotia and I am left in charge of maintaing the blog...admittingly slacking...I finally had some time tonight to browse through Etsy and found this shop called Kelgwo which is based in Chile...ummm...the pieces are amazing!!! The shop is made up of 7 local Chilean women who design, colour, dye, knit and weave. All the items I put pics up of are between $90.00 - $200.00 which may seem a little pricey but I would totally pay it to look this great, not to mention how posh I would be buying hand woven wraps from Chile - come on, seriously!!!! The products are gorgeous.

breakfast...yummm!!

2008-09-26T08:17:00.002-04:00

I was browsing the Real Simple website and caught sight of this amazing recipe for Prosciutto and Egg Panini...it looks super delicious. I am a big prosciutto fan, mainly because it's salty but it would be so good for breakie and especially with egg and cheese - YUMMMMMMMMMM!!!

Check out the recipe, it may just be our Sunday breakfast...

wedding day...

2008-09-23T08:37:00.003-04:00

So I've been meaning to post about this for a long time but like C has said things have been a little crazy for both of us. On August 16th Portia de Rossi and Ellen Degeneres tied the knot!!!! Not to mention that I am obsessed with the Ellen show (remember P.Diddy's taste buddies?) and totally laughed my heini (sp?) off at Arrested Development but I facilitate a Gay Straight Alliance at the highschool I work at. This was a really publicized event and to that I say kudos to Ellen and Portia for being like every other couple out there and giving the students I work with some inspiration and confidence.

Ellen and Portia had some of the most beautiful photos I have seen so check them out...all the white and soft pink was so pretty.

accessorize!

2008-09-18T10:19:00.005-04:00

I know, I know...we have been short on posts, but hopefully some beautiful accessories will make you perk up on this Thursday morning.

First in line is this adorable clutch from Love Parcel. It's only $48! I love that it has a handle, so it's easy to carry.

Because your handbag was so inexpensive, you can totally justify purchasing these BEAUTY-ful shoes from Valentino! You can pick them up at Neiman Marcus.
Now, of course you need a bracelet. I love this bangel from Anthropologie. It's so delicate, but definitely a statement piece!

At too finish off, I think the whole look would be amazing paired with navy blue. This cute dress is the Rebecca dress from J. Crew.

sorry...

2008-09-13T14:10:00.003-04:00

Yes, I know, we have been out of touch for a while. Seems that M and I have trouble doing more than one thing at a time. You see, M works at a high school and I work at an elementary school, now that the summer is over, we need to get back into our school year routine. We promise, lots of exciting, informative and fun post to come!

xo

saturday afternoon...

2008-09-13T14:07:00.004-04:00

Just plain pretty! From Carolina Herrera...

pictures courtesy of Kleinfeld's

work it out!

2008-09-06T09:58:00.007-04:00

I may have said this before, but I am a lover of office products! Seriously, I could spend hours in Staples. I will even look at the catalogue. The curious part is, I don't work in an office. I have my work studio at home...half computer space and half workspace. Despite all this, I continue to buy office stuff...I love me some pretty pushpins, magnets, post-its, pads of paper (I love to make lists, and the lined steno pad is my first choice!) Well, now I have some more things to covet at Girl of All Work. (thank you Parcel Post!)

Just take a gander at these gorgeous goodies...all of which I want in my possession. Fun page flags and bookmarks, beautiful note books, totally cool magnets...and check out the fab CD labels and sleeves!!

Now only if they would make a magic genie that would come and clean up my messy space!

just sharing...

2008-09-03T08:25:00.005-04:00

I came across these super cute finds at Plum Party. Every once in a while, I check out their site to see what new items they have, and this is what I found that caught my this morning.

These are really cute individual cake plates, they would be super for a mixed shower or an outdoor party...

These really crack me up, especially the "gold digger" and "porn star"...they would be alot of fun at a personal shower or for a girl's night out...

great gift idea for a hostess

These I thought were really pretty and come in a 5 pack for $21.00, they would be adorable for the little people in your wedding party or to give to your guests at the church...

a little inspiration

2008-08-29T10:07:00.003-04:00

I was going through some of our previous projects that Avocado Kiss has made and I came across this one that we did for my daughter's 2nd birthday. It reminded me that sometimes soft and simple can be so pretty...the look of something so feminine just makes me think of bunches of dainty roses, little cupcakes with pink frosting and strands of white satin ribbon. It would be such a great look for a shower!

a worthy cause!

2008-08-28T14:48:00.002-04:00

It's an amazing what a community of bloggers can do. Everyone reaching out to help someone many of us have never met, but somehow we've come to know through this wonderful world of blogging. Please read this post "Love For Nie" and see how you can offer your support and do some shopping at the same time! You can check out the list of auctions on Design Mom.

Etsy treasures!

2008-08-27T17:33:00.005-04:00

It's been a while since we have done a post on one of our favorite things...Etsy.

The first treasure is this sweet shop, For The Love Of All Things Creative. These beautiful glass creations are definitely something I have not seen before...and she also does custom work if you are looking for something special.

Next up is Kelly Vivar. Her line is called Inu Jewelry. It's beautiful, delicate, hammered silver and brass. I love this set of five rings, but there is so may different things to choose from. Again, this artist will make custom pieces, perfect for your wedding party.

Finally, Paloma's Nest. We have posted about them before, and they always have such unique treasures. These monogram bowls would be perfect for your bridesmaids....a great way to store their earrings, rings and other jewelry.

a little spa treatment

2008-08-25T17:29:00.004-04:00

I was looking for some small, inexpensive gifts for some girlfriends who were coming over for a girls night and I thought I would share what I came up with. Using the clear tube, labels and baker's twine from Garnish and a loofah cloth from the local dollar store I made mini "spa treatments." I filled them with some bath salts, massage oil and cleansing gel and gave instructions on filling the tubes with hot water, shaking them and adding them to a hot bath or foot soak. They look fantastic if I do say so myself (and I do). Each gift cost me about $3.00 and for a night at the spa, how awesome is that?

a good laugh for the day...

2008-08-22T08:18:00.008-04:00

I bought the new edition of Real Simple, and one of the first things I read was a little blurb they had on Daily Candy. Daily Candy is a website that you can subscribe to for free daily email on fashion, food and other sorts of things. So, they wrote in the mag about a book by Daily Candy on "Words that Don't Exist but Should" and this made me laugh all morning. These were some of them...

crappuccino - A poorly made coffee beverage that costs upwards of 4$.

mapquestionable - (C and I can totally relate to this) Word describing directions provided by MapQuest that somehow cause you to drive in an enormous figure eight.

yellular - The loudness adopted in response to a bad connection in the misguided hope that talking louder will improve it (Ok...this totally cracked me up because the husband yells when he uses his cell phone - he just assumes the other person can't hear him...too funny).

cause you know you'll never wear it again!

2008-08-22T08:00:00.008-04:00

So you want to have the most amazing designer wedding gown, but you can't quite afford the price? Well have I got the place for you! Encore Bridal, New and Nearly New Couture. They have the most gorgeous selection of new, sample and nearly new dresses. And seriously, if it's nearly new, you know it's only been worn once! They have all the top designers, Vera Wang, Monique Lhuillier, Reem Acra, Judd Waddell, Amsale and so many more. And you can save a lot, just take a look at some of the selection...

Marissa 737 - size 6 $1198(save $302)...n.b. this is a NEW dress, probably a sample

Pronovias Bangkok - size 14 $1150 (save $850)

Vera Wang Couture - size 2-4 $1970 (save $2030)

This in an online store, and I know some of you are thinking that you could never buy your dress from somewhere online...how will you know it will fit? No worries, Encore has extensive measurements on some of the dresses, and a detailed size chart as well.

There are also lots of accessories to choose from...veils, jewelry and even shoes! Like this Russian Birdcage veil, new at $90.

So don't worry about trying to rework that budget, because you can afford the dress of your dreams!

more than the mall of america!

2008-08-18T17:47:00.011-04:00

I just got back from a long weekend in Minneapolis with my sister in law, P. The great thing about travelling with P, is she does a lot of the legwork, finds the cool things to do, and the best places to eat! Usually a trip to Minneapolis is either about the Husband's soccer team or shopping at the Mall of America. This time our trip was an amazing adventure!

The Walker Art Centre...photo from here

Spoonbridge and Cherry...photo from here

First stop was the Walker Art Center. On Thursday nights, admission is free (thanks to Target!). This museum is contemporary art, some of it was a little hard to understand, but still, very enjoyable. We started our tour with the Minneapolis Sculpture Garden (always free!), and saw the famous, Spoonbridge and Cherry by Claes Oldenburg and Coosje van Bruggen.

After our tour of the museum, it was off to dinner at 20*21, a Wolfgang Puck restaurant located in the Walker Art Center. It's kind of Asian fusion, and I had some of the most amazing food I have ever eaten!! If you go, I highly recommend sharing a couple different plates, we had the pork pot stickers, shrimp and scallop spring rolls and the beef. Can I just tell you it was the best beef I have EVER eaten....melt in your mouth YUM!

Hell's Kitchen...photo from here

The next day, we had breakfast at Hell's Kitchen. I highly recommend the Huevos Rancheros, it was sooooo good! Then, of course, we shopped till we dropped along Nicolette Mall. It was a beautiful day, and was so much better than dealing with crowds and the air conditioning at the Mall of America! Did you know there is a two story Target downtown, you can even put your carts up the escalator!! It was pretty cool.

112 Eatery...photo from here

Dinner was at 112 Eatery. This place was very nice! It was in the Warehouse District, and had maybe 35 tables (reservations recommended). Though we had an amazing meal, I still wore jeans, so no stuffiness at this place! Again, P and I shared our meal...we had the cauliflower fritters, pan fried gnocchi (I almost died, it was so good), french fries and we each had a cheese burger. It was so good, P and I barely talked to each other during dinner. All topped off with my Kir Royale, it was pretty near perfect! Our waiter was amazing, and made some very good recommendations!

Cathedral of Saint Paul...picture from here

Saturday afternoon, we took a drive along Summit Avenue in Saint Paul. Close to the Saint Paul Cathedral, this avenue has all the stately homes of the gilded age. There is the James J. Hill House which is open for tours, and you can even take a historic walking tour of the neighbourhood. We topped off our visit with a coffee at a sidewalk cafe on Grand Avenue.

Guthrie Theatre

Saturday night we headed over to the Guthrie Theatre for a performance of Little House on the Prairie..it was a musical! If you're going to be in the Twin Cities, you should go and see it, it was really good! The Guthrie houses two stages, and our theatre was very intimate, every seat was a good seat. The Guthrie is a marvel of architecture, and take a drive across 3rd street to truly appreciate the Endless Bridge.

Foshay Tower...picture from here

All that was left was a yummy breakfast at Key's Cafe in the famous Foshay building (which now has the W Minneapolis, very cool, and will definitely have to have a drink there next time!) It was a great trip, I will never stay at the Mall of America again, downtown is where it's at! Thanks P for the great food, laughs and good times. Where are we going next year?

how cool are these?

2008-08-17T08:54:00.005-04:00

ok...so hopefully we haven't posted about this before, but anyhow, these are the pictures I took of some super cool decals that I ordered from Tasty Suite. They are really great looking vinyl wall words that come in all sorts of different colours and styles. I chose "get to the point" in "tight whitey" and these other really neat signs for your light switches (I couldn't find them on the website but am totally sure that you can call and order them). Since the last time I visited their website they have a whole bunch of new uber trendy urban decals too, so check them out. Their prices are really reasonable and the orders came in really quick.

the sauce

2008-08-15T18:52:00.006-04:00

Every summer our family (and thousands of others) get together to make tomato sauce. At first, this comes as a daunting task having to take the whole weekend off from any other sort of function, and spend 3 days working with your in-laws (in my case). With all that being said, it is a really important tradition in my husband's family, which has been done for centuries. My mother-in law has 5 sisters living here in our small city in Canada, and they all take turns helping each other out to prep and cook the tomatoes...and we get free sauce so why not. It involves a lot of tomatoes (the people line up and wait for the tomato truck to show up - I shouldn't laugh) like 30 pounds, a lot of cutting, cooking and eating. We all bring our kids so they can run around getting sunburned and delirious. It's a good time!

Last year, which is where these pics came from, our nieces and nephew came here from out of town, so it was an exceptionally good year, as they hadn't been a part of it before. We are on duty this weekend and are totally looking forward to getting together and eating lots of fresh cheese, bread and pasta!!!

Surprise!!!

2008-08-15T18:40:00.003-04:00

Just about 1 week ago, the husband's aunt asked Avocado Kiss to design some surprise birthday invites for her hubby's 70th (and I can blog about this without fear I think, that Zio Francesco will be surfing the net and reading the blog and I'll have ruined the surprise). The catch was that she needed 60 pieces and they had to be ready in 5 days for them to bring with them when they visited some family out of town. Not to toot our own horn or anything but we're quite speedy and the results were super!!! We chose a number 10 size and went with a multicoloured look with a lanscape style. The envelopes were white and we used simple black writing in one of my new fave fonts, "broadway". So check out the pics and toot, toot.

are you in or are you out?

2008-08-13T10:50:00.005-04:00

Once the giddiness of the engagement has worn off (well...hopefully it doesn't!), it's time to get to the business of planning a wedding. Before you can book a venue, you need to figure out how many people you want to invite....and so...the dreaded guest list begins! My husband is from an Italian background, he's a first generation Canadian. Let me tell you, the Italians where I live, have many traditions, most of which I love. And one of them is to basically invite anyone and everyone to your wedding. Our venue was only able to accommodate 240 people, which may seem like a lot, but in a city where upwards of 350 invitees is the norm, it's not very much. Needless to say, we ended up with 207, and I was VERY happy about that!

So if you're wondering who should make the list and who shouldn't, here are some tips via CNN. My faves are #5: Do you know my fiance? and #4: Do I have any kids?

picture from Martha...check out the fabulous forest inspired wedding here.

fashion inspiration

2008-08-12T09:57:00.003-04:00

I just recently returned from a trip to Montreal, QC and it was the first time I had been there. It is such an amazing city, though I didn't get to do a whole lot of touring in 4 days we still got the whole french vibe. The people were super friendly and there was so much culture. We spent an afternoon in Old Montreal and the restaurants with outdoor terraces alone were very cool nevermind all the singing and dancing and artists along the water.

One thing I really noticed is how great people dress in Montreal. There is such an eclectic mix of styles and looks that it doesn't really matter how you dress - it looks good! On St. Catherine's the whole street (and it's a long street) is loaded with Gucci, Prada, Puma, BCBG, Mexx and a tonne of other shops. It was a really great trip and I have some renewed inspiration for my closet!!!

going for gold

2008-08-11T08:08:00.005-04:00

No, this is not another post about the Olympics...it's time for some more colour inspiration! Today we're talking gold. It's the perfect colour for a fall or winter wedding. You can use varying shades of gold, or do a classic black and gold for a more formal look. Here are some pictures to inspire you. The invitation is from Avocado Kiss Stationery + Design, the other three pics are from The Knot.

helpful advice

2008-08-11T07:56:00.002-04:00

Thank you to Ritzy Bee for blogging about this article, 10 Things To Never Do At A Wedding

The day two people exchange vows may not be your special day, but it's someone's special day, so be on your best behavior -- all the way from the I -do's to the obligatory Gloria Gaynor dance marathon...

Don't Be Fashionably Late As the song says, get to the church on time! Allow enough time to get to there 15 minutes early or more no matter what weather, traffic, or other acts of divine intervention pop up. Print out directions to both the ceremony and the reception (if it's at a different location). Many a wedding has been hampered by guests who got lost and showed up an hour late.
Don't Produce Sound Effects While at a wedding and reception, turn off your Blackberries and cell phones, put them on vibrate, or better yet, don't even take them!
Don't Talk Trash It may sound obvious, but it happens all the time. No matter how big or how loud a wedding is, things get overheard. So, be on your best and most polite behavior. No gossip about any of the other guests. No complaining out loud about anything -- whether it's the food or the long line at the ladies' room. And no comparisons to other weddings! As far as the bride and groom are concerned, this is a perfect day, and so it should be!
Don't Come Bearing Gifts Whether you're planning on gifting the happy couple a Cuisinart or cold hard cash, do them a huge favor and don't bring it on the wedding day. If you do, they have to keep track of it and haul it home at the end of the night. Send the gift ahead of time, or after the actual ceremony -- at a time when they can really relax and enjoy it.
Don't Dress Down Whatever you choose to wear, make the effort to look your best for the bride and groom. They'll appreciate that you got dolled or duded up for the occasion. If the invitation doesn't specify dress code, put in a friendly email or call to the bride, groom, their parents, or attendants to get more info. Black Tie means you've got to dust off that long silk dress or rent a tux. If it's an outdoor affair, there may be more leeway, but get details on the location, so you can come prepared (because it's isn't fun to be traipsing around in the sand in your stilettos!).
Don't Bring Mr. or Ms. Random If you're single, choose your date carefully. If it's someone you've only been out with once, it may not be the best idea (could be awkward for you, your date, and the newlyweds). Same if it's someone you recently "sort of" broke up with. Weddings are intimate affairs and bringing in a stranger should be done with thought. Let the bride or groom know if you decide to come alone so they can seat you with other fun "ones!" And as much as you may love your kiddos, don't take them if children aren't invited.
Don't Steal the Show Wedding ceremonies take all forms -- from religious to poetic, musical, or humorous. Whatever the vibe, let the bride and groom set the tone and follow their lead. If you're normally a loud, life-of-the-party type, bring it down a notch and let the wedding couple stand out. If you're a weeper, bring tissues and sit where you can sob without disturbing the I Do's. If the ceremony includes religious rituals, find out what you should do (or not do) ahead of time.
Don't Pig Out If food is serve-yourself, avoid the buffet line stampede and wait until the crowd dies down. Also, avoid going back for thirds. Take a break and save room for cake! Seconds might be okay, once you've seen that everyone has eaten. If the food is served sit-down, eat what is served without requesting substitutions or omissions, unless you have a food allergy. Otherwise, pick delicately or chow down, but don't gripe that you "don't like fish." Worse comes to worst, you can hit Burger King on the way home!
Don't Drag Out Skeletons If the bride blushes, it should be from pride, joy, or sheer love. Not because someone just stood up and told a humiliating story about the loser she dated in high school! Ingratiate yourself to the lady and her groom by avoiding any potentially embarrassing or juvenile behavior -- no bawdy jokes, no tales about their dating habits or exploits, no overdrinking, and no overly sexy dancing. Have fun, but don't have it at anyone else's expense.
Don't Stockpile Party Favors At the end of the night, as you're saying your thank-yous and farewells, avoid the urge to hog all the super-cool (or yummy) party favors! You don't need to take some for people who weren't able to attend. You don't need extras. Take one for yourself, unless someone in the wedding party urges you to do otherwise.

This article is kind of appropriate today, this past weekend I attended the 3rd of the 4 weddings we were invited to this summer. And at these 3 weddings, I have seen everyone of these golden rules be broken...hmmm...I think more people need to read this article!

Olympic Fever!!

2008-08-09T16:08:00.008-04:00

I love the Olympics! I love to watch sports that I would never usually watch, I love the stories about all the athletes (thank you CBC sports...for doing features on everybody!!), I love feeling proud to be a Canadian! I also love all the commercials...this one from Nike I find particularly inspiring! Click here to see the commercial, and be sure to read the stories about all of the amazing athletes!

p.s. I've tried to make this post from You Tube and it's showing up, so hopefully you won't see the post a dozen times!

red hot!

2008-08-05T08:15:00.010-04:00

Here is another colour combo for some inspiration. The colour of the day is red. Now, I think I've said this before, red is probably my least favorite colour used at weddings. But, it seems my opinion might be changing. There are so many new ways to use red besides the traditional winter wedding combo of red and white. I'm LOVING red and turquoise, or different shades of red used together, and even red and gold.

Though I couldn't find any pictures for today (I will keep searching), red also makes me think of the rich jewel tones found in Indian saris and fabrics. A perfect red, combined with a deep orange and yellow could be really nice too. Hmmm...now I'm inspired, by my own blog post, how awesome is that!

photos {the knot}

LUG

2008-08-04T23:46:00.006-04:00

ClearView Envelopes 2 for $20.00

Eco Shopper $16.00

Parachute Storage Sleeve $28.00
Freight Box Lunch Cube $22.00

Okay, so we all know that Oprah featured LUG in her magazine and that they've been around for a bit but this is the first time I've been to their website. Of course, I want to buy it all but I thought I would share some of my faves...I have been looking for some travel pouches to hold my liquids when flying, I have to admit that I have been using sandwhich bags and to be quite honest, they don't cut it!!!! I'm also thinking I look kinda budget. So, off I go tomorrow to go and purchase my pockets - yay!!!

a rose is a rose...is a rose

2008-08-02T13:43:00.005-04:00

For the longest time I have boycotted roses as a traditional gift of flowers. I have always insisted that the most beautiful bouquets were more natural looking and wild or tropical. However, with that being said I adore wild roses...and done in the right way they are sooooo romantic for a wedding. Still a little afraid of the typical dozen red roses with baby's breath, a beautiful cream or soft pink almost makes me cry. On the Instyle website they have some really pretty arrangements, I especially adore the soft pink wild rose.

mellow yellow

2008-07-31T09:04:00.010-04:00

We thought we would do some features on colour combinations. Colour plays such an important role in a wedding...it's the jumping off point for all of your decor, flowers and even what you are going to wear. So whether you choose a simple black and white theme or fuschia and orange theme, the colour you choose will set the mood.

One of the hottest colours out there right now is yellow. I was shopping yesterday with my sister S, and I noticed that yellow is in every store....from what's leftover from summer, to all the new fall fashions. (On a side note, we found the perfect jeans at J. Crew...the low slung boy cut for me which are soooo soft, don't gape and are just right, the matchstick for S which make her look soooo skinny, perfect!) The thing I love about yellow is there are so many shades, from lemon to mustard. Also, yellow is perfect for any season! Here are some of my favorite pictures from The Knot...

What is your favorite colour combination? Leave us a comment or send us an email to avocado_kiss {at} yahoo.ca....we would love to hear from you! Keep checking back for more colour inspiration!

Fashion Tuesday...

2008-07-29T08:19:00.007-04:00

I didn't really know this, but Nicole Miller makes wedding dresses. She's not really a designer you find advertising in bridal mags...and if so, usually for bridesmaid's dresses. Of course, then I realized that M wore a Nicole Miller dress, and thought I would do some further investigation!

Be sure to check out the Nicole Miller website here....

Sauble Beach

2008-07-28T08:27:00.004-04:00

I was on Yahoo this am and was looking through all the news highlights (my new thing lately is to be informed with what's going on in the world so I can contribute to some adult conversations!!!) and of course, was drawn to the top places to travel. One of the names listed was Sauble Beach in Bruce County (Sauble Falls Provincial Park) and suprised that I had never heard of this place (because I am quite the traveller - sort of) I looked into it. Low and behold it is here in Ontario and on Lake Huron...it looks awesome and they have all sorts of great activites like art shows on the shoreline, barbeques, campfires and there's a tonne of restaurants. They also have some bed and breakfast and cottages for rent if you want to have an extended stay. It looks like they have some type of cool outdoor market too. I think I may just be planning a trip to Sauble Beach next summer with my family.

fall forward?

2008-07-24T22:51:00.004-04:00

I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'm looking forward to some fall fashion from J.Crew. I know, I shouldn't get ahead of myself, I love summer so much, but I was totally inspired by my new J. Crew catalogue. I think it's a fall preview, though there was no title on the cover, and it's not online yet.

What's even better, is they had a great feature on their bridal fashion. There is a new dress, which is to die for, and I love the chocolate and purple (or aubergine, so sophisticated!) combo, a totally new look for brown! Here's a peek...

And finally, what I aspire my fall fashion to be....chic, effortless and all about cashmere (now, I just need the wallet for cashmere!)

time for a road trip

2008-07-24T16:00:00.006-04:00

Now that M is back from her camping...I'll be roughing it in the car for 2 days. I'll be driving to Massachusetts to visit my sister S this weekend. It's been a while since I've done two days of driving on my own. Some would loathe the task, but I love driving! And when there is no Husband in the car, I can rock out to all the Wilson Phillips and Abba that I want. Not too mention I will see scenery like this...

::from Flickr

and this...

:: Mackinac Bridge.org

and this...

:: from here

I will start off with a drive along the north coast of Lake Superior (which is the first photo, and let me tell you, if you live in Canada and have not done the drive from Sault Sainte Marie to Thunder Bay, you are missing out. This is some of the best scenery you will ever see, and some great beaches too!) Head across into Michigan, get to cross the Mackinac Bridge (second photo). From there head into Ohio, for my first night stop in Cleveland. Then hit a tiny inch of Pennsylvania, and it's the New York Thru Way and Mass Pike from there. I might even leave the gas guzzling SUV at home, and ride in the more fuel efficient convertible...note to self, must remember suntan lotion and a hat...jeez, I hope it doesn't rain.

I better get my ipod charged up and my Sirius satellite radio ready, it's going to be a fun trip! What do you like to listen to on the road? I need some suggestions...

at the beach...

2008-07-24T13:27:00.006-04:00

C and I spend alot of time at the beach and our family cottages. I, myself just returned from a "roughing it" vacation at a Provincial Park with some girlfriends. Though I am still trying to mend the hangover headache I've had for 4 days, and clean the bonfire smoke out of my clothes (did I mention I had a good time?) it got me thinking. To "rough it" doesn't mean your sense of fashion has to suffer...I endured endless barbs about the amount of products and cute clothes I brought into the bush with me, though, funny, I don't consider myself a "high maintenance" camper. I found these really great pieces from Land's End and J. Crew that would go a long way in making you look superb, yet bush-like while you spend some time outdoors.

Terry hoodie for 68$. So comfy...

This bathing suit is from Land's End and they have a huge selection of suits for all body shapes - I loved the fact that it has a halter neck and the pattern and colour of this one is great..it also gives you a little bit of coverage.

This is from J. Crew and is a cashmere hoodie which would be great to throw over your bathing suit or a thin tee. It is a little pricey at 198$, but come on people...it's cashmere!!!! Nothing says camping more than cashmere!

This is a great drawstring mini.

Lemon chino shorts...a steal at 42$ and a tissue tee for 24$.

blue suede shoes

2008-07-22T14:30:00.003-04:00

Okay, so really these shoes aren't suede, but blue shoes are a fun surprise underneath your wedding dress. Have a look at these!

1. J.Crew: Liza $179.99
2. Emilio Pucci: $239.99
3. Kate Spade: Kali $348.00
4. Nina: Betty $89.95
5. Manolo Blahnik: Something Blue $945 (insane, I know, but the name was perfect!)

my lips are happy

2008-07-22T08:18:00.007-04:00

I stopped into my local health food store yesterday. Maybe I'm feeling some guilt about driving my gas guzzling SUV, but I felt like checking out some earth friendly products. Well, it turned out to be a very successful shopping trip.

I picked up some Seventh Generation laundry detergent and fabric softener, which I was very happy to see they made in a "he" formula for my front loading machine. Also good to know that it's perfectly safe for my septic system (which frankly, I never really thought of before). Interesting fact:

I also found Robert's American Gourmet Pirate Booty. My sister turned me onto this snack. Can I just say, this stuff is friggin' AWESOME! It's actually kind of good for you...I could read and understand the ingredients, no words over 10 letters! They make a lot of other great products, so check out their website.

Finally, I found the best lip gloss ever! I'm very excited about this, as I'm very particular about my lip gloss. It is from Alba. I chose the Coconut cream lip gloss. It's not too sticky, just the right amount of shine, reminds me of the beach and tastes yummy! My lips are so happy! Not to mention, Alba has a commitment to making our planet better, read about their environmental practices here.I will now go get back in my gas guzzler...not quite sure I'm ready to part with that yet!

I love a freebie!

2008-07-21T10:35:00.010-04:00

Checking up on my list of daily blog reads, I came across a great post about things to make from How About Orange. I felt it deserved more investigation, and to my great surprise, I found a bunch of totally cool downloads from HP...the best part, they are FREE, people! What a great way to start the week.

Here are some great labels that you could use for your wedding or celebration....or really any day, for that matter.

mailing labels

luggage tags, what a great favor for a destination wedding

favor tags for some homemade goodies

Take a look at all the free downloads here, you will never know what you'll find!

time for a do over!

2008-07-18T10:50:00.006-04:00

Though I would like to imagine that I make my bed everyday, it just doesn't happen. Which is really a shame, because when my bed is all done up, it looks pretty nice. Do you think that maybe purchasing some new bedding might change my fate? I'm thinking that it's worth a shot...and I love this bedding from Dwell Studio.

You can shop online through their website, and you can also do a search for a store that might be in your neighborhood. Dwell Studio sells home decor, tabletop decor and even some great things for the baby's room.

And, if you are finding their original line a little too pricey, well dontcha know it, they have a line at Target! The featured products at Target are mostly in their baby line, lots of bedding, accessories and furniture, but they do have some stuff for us grownups too!

you don't even need a card!

2008-07-17T10:26:00.008-04:00

I love this jewelry from Dogeared. I've been searching for some pretty, delicate necklaces, and these are just what I was looking for. It also made me think that they would be the perfect gift for your bridesmaids. Each piece of jewelry comes packaged with a card that describes it's meaning. I LOVE that! They have specific pieces for your bridesmaids, your mom, for a birthday, for a new baby, for just about anything. And the best part is, they are totally affordable. Be sure to check out their line of bracelets and canvas bags as well. I think I just might need to celebrate myself and order a few!

destination weddings

2008-07-17T09:48:00.006-04:00

Again, while I plan my cousin's wedding for her (really, it's me living vicariously through her) I found this company dedicated to planning your destination wedding. Even just going to their website makes you want to travel somewhere hot and exotic.

I love Canada!

2008-07-15T09:41:00.005-04:00

Little did I know that we had an amazing bridal magazine in Canada that I had never heard about! It is called Wed Luxe, and they also have a great website. They call themselves Canada's Luxury Wedding magazine, but don't be scared off because you think everything inside will be out of your price range. They have a lot of great ideas....and most importantly, vendors! So far they only list Alberta, B.C. and Ontario vendors, but I'm sure that will change soon. Here are a few of my favorites I found:

These people are truly amazing. I love, LOVE their video production. Please check out their website to view some of their 8mm film samples, you will definitely want them for your event!

In the sweets department, I found Allyson Meredith Cakes. Her confections are definitely a thing of beauty! Just take a look at these yummy delights...

And finally, a spectacular wedding venue in the Eastern suburbs of Toronto, The Miller Lash House. Nestled in Highland Creek, on the Old Kingston Road, this house was built by Miller Lash, a wealthy Toronto businessman, in the early 1900's. It was built in the Arts and Crafts Style, using natural materials, and blends seamlessly into it's surroundings. If you choose to have an reception inside the house, it can seat 50 to 75 people. There is also a spectacular outdoor tent that can seat 200. Every client has exclusive use of the property. If you do choose the tent venue, you can also rent all of the indoor spaces for just another $500...totally worth it! The best part about the tent venue, is that the washrooms are in a quaint stone cottage...no dealing with port-a-potties here! Check out the website, and a slide show of my favorite images.

I think this maybe one of our favorite new websites....so we will let you know what's happening!

lovely

2008-07-14T08:33:00.003-04:00

This one photo is from Martha Stewart and the dress is by Atelier Aimee and you can find lots of dresses (which I love) on the Inside Weddings website.

Karl Lagerfeld

Melissa Sweet

This photo came from a bridal salon in Vancouver called Blush Occasions

I was searching some bridal gowns this morning and was trying to find some different styles that didn't look like the same dress that everyone seems to be wearing, strapless & white satin. Like both C and I have said if we were ever to get married again, (this is actually a plan of ours - to the same partners of course, but just so that we could plan a big fantastic party where we look fabulous) we would totally choose completely different styles. My favourites right now are anything really pretty and feminine with lots of lace or long, flowing fabric. I'm going to keep searching and let you see what else I can find.

gorgeous hair

2008-07-12T16:26:00.005-04:00

This is always one of the big stresses for your wedding day (or for any event for that matter)...I was inspired by one particular photo by 5ive15ifteen that really showcased this brides amazing hair style. I found some other great hair styles from "the knot" in the above pics. There is also an article on Yahoo about Sam McKnight who is a famous hollywood hairstylist and what his favourite styles and trends are for this year.

great photography

2008-07-11T21:05:00.006-04:00

all photos by 5ive15ifteen

I was researching some photographers for my cousin's wedding in London, Ontario and found this super awesome photgrapher in Toronto (which is completely doable) 5ive 15ifteen, their gallery is huge and has tonnes of fab photos. They offer packages where they will go with you to your dress fitting, attend a Trousseau Tea and go to the rehearsal dinner. The pictures are absolutely beautiful! You can also see their pics on Style Me Pretty, a fellow blogger.

my favourite things today

2008-07-10T13:05:00.005-04:00

I wanted to share the 2 things that made me smile today when I got up...I just returned from a trip to visit some family in Southern Ontario and feared that I had missed seeing all of my peonies bloom. I have 2 huge plants in the front of my house and they were covered with buds when I left so I really wanted to see them all full...to my delight when I pulled in from the airport they were all still there. Today I snipped them and put them all over my house and they look and smell beautiful. C used these as her center pieces for her wedding in a pale pink and they were gorgeous.

The other pic is of my new pillows!!!!!! Yay!!!!! I found these at Home Sense and bought 3 at 19.99$ ea. what a steal...they are perfect for what I wanted in my living room and are actually indoor/outdoor.

It's funny what makes us happy sometimes or gives us inspration but whatever it is...go with it!